Posted on November, 18 2008, under Blogging by Ikki | 9 comment(s)

From a blogger perspective, comments are the most important and most rewarding part of running a blog. Its importance relies on the fact that a comment is both a feedback and a way to build a relationship between our readers and us.

However, I have noticed that on all major blogs -actually, on all blogs I’ve seen lately- comments have seem to have lost its original purpose - to add value to the discussion and enhance the learning experience of all the people participating on it. Self-centered comments are multiplicating prodigiously. Does anyone knows why?

Anyways, this whole situation made me think of an old saying that goes like this: “Every cloud has a silver lining”. Even when blogs are being populated with meaningless comments, we can still take advantage of this on our behalf and create new opportunities to consolidate our blog by networking with other writers while attracting and engaging new readers.

Effective Commenting

There are a few mistakes people do when commenting on a site. These mistakes usually lead the blogger to moderate your comment - or just simply have it marked as spam, as I do sometimes.

Keep in mind that when you leave a comment, you’re also leaving a mini-resume of who you are. A good, highly relevant comment can not just attract the focus of attention but also create a reaction on the viewer: the blogger and his / her readers. This is something you want.

No, I’m not asking you to go spam every blog you find on your way but to comment effectively to drive more visitors to your site and if possible establish a connection with the blogger. Here’s what you need to do (and also what you must avoid at all costs!):

  • Add to the conversation. Take your time and read the entire post. Contribute to the discussion taking place there and let everyone know your honest opinion on the subject. Don’t be afraid to disagree with the author’s ideas - just make sure you do it respectfully (thanks Wong!).
  • If necessary, quote external sources. Sometimes it’s necessary to back up your thoughts with facts - when possible, support your ideas by linking to contents that can add up to the discussion. This will give your words credibility and also create trust around you.
  • If there’s nothing to add, don’t comment. Sometimes, it’s best to avoid commenting on a topic where you -for any reason- can’t really add any value to the conversation. It’s best to remain silent than commenting for the sake of commenting.
  • Ask Intelligent Questions. Don’t ask a question you already know the answer to. Challenge the blogger and its readers and ask an interesting question - something that when answered will provide a lot of value to all the people involved in the conversation (including you). Be the one promoting new ideas.
  • Participate Actively. Getting involved in a discussion implies that you must also become a part of it. Interact with other readers and share your opinions with them.

How Can This Benefit My Blog?

I’m sure that most of you have already seen how powerful comments can be. However, for those who do not yet realize the importance of commenting, here are a few benefits that you can get just by writing a comment:

  • Get some Extra Traffic: there may be some people that will click on your name to find your URL to see what other interesting stuff you have to say.
  • Networking: by commenting, you will surely find people who you can partner with. Make new friends and let everyone know about you and your site. There might be hidden business opportunity awaiting for you!
  • Brainstorming: usually, when participating in discussions our creativity gets expanded since we’re exposed to new ideas and different points of views. Use this to think of new, interesting topics to share with your readers.
  • Brand: the more you expose your ideas on different audiences, the more people will follow you. Branding your ideas is important because that creates connections - connections with the people that share your passions.
  • Authority: the more you’re exposed to others’ point of view, the more you learn about your field. Gaining experience is essential to build authority!

As someone else said, blogging isn’t only about sharing your point of view of the things around you - it’s also about joining the conversation where it is happening. It’s about reaching out to others and interact with new perspectives, incorporating new ideas to your arsenal.

Hope you have enjoyed this post. I know I did while writing it for you guys!

Get your daily blogging tips via RSS, or subscribe via Email using the form below:

Validating, please wait...

9 Replies to "How to Comment on Blogs Effectively"

  • November 18, 08
    Shanker Bakshi says:

    Sorry Boss, I guess am not voilating any law. Good Post on commenting but what to say more - You made me sp
    Speechless :-)

  • November 18, 08
    Ikki says:

    @Shanker Bakshi: I’m glad to know that you liked it ;) Welcome to my blog!

  • November 19, 08
    Forsaken says:

    Hi Ikki, just emphasizing on “Get some Extra Traffic” benefit, this is something I recently pointed out in my blog entry on STZ. Here is the link for those interested..
    http://sitetalkzone.com/blog/building-traffic-to-your-website-the-easy-way/

    Read the last paragraph, “Participate Actively on other Websites“. It points out the traffic benefit you can gain by participating on other websites (and blogs). I also mentioned that it is a very good practice to understand the article fully before making a comment. Generic comments (thanks you, great post, etc) would not help.

    Once again you have “churned” out a great blog entry, Ikki. Congrats on your God given writing skills. :)

  • November 19, 08
    Ikki says:

    @Forsaken: I have read that article and gotta say that it’s a pretty good one! However, I don’t see social sites traffic as a valuable thing.

    I’ve also read the part where you make mention of comments -which fits perfectly to what we’re discussing here- and you’re totally right. Comments must add value to the discussion, not decrease it.

    Yours is a perfect example on how to comment effectively on a blog ;)

  • November 20, 08
    Farrhad says:

    Great post ;p
    You have covered the topic very nicely :)

    Any clue what is Rauru’s comment average?

  • November 20, 08
    Ikki says:

    @Farrhad: I had never thought of measuring this :P I just did and this is what I got:

    # Until now, Rauru’s comment average is 5,54 per post.
    # Last 30 entries have an average of 7.1 comments per post.
    # This month’s comment average is 9.75 per post (yay!).

    Hopefully, participation will continue to grow in the next months. I’ll do my best to keep my posting schedule as regular as possible to achieve this ;)

  • November 20, 08
    Farrhad says:

    Nice stats :)
    I use the blog metrics plugin for this.

    I have an avg. of 11.

  • November 20, 08
    Ikki says:

    @Farrhad: Awesome! Hope to reach your avg within the next 3 months or so :P Any recommendations to achieve this?

  • December 5, 08
    The Great Marketing Experiment - Week 3 | Diligent Design says:

    [...] How to Comment on Blogs Effectively [...]

Leave a Comment

XHTML: You can use these tags: <a href="" title=""> <abbr title=""> <acronym title=""> <b> <blockquote cite=""> <cite> <code> <del datetime=""> <em> <i> <q cite=""> <strike> <strong>

By commenting here, you agree to abide by the comment policy of this blog.